Showing posts with label Drama. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Drama. Show all posts

Thursday, August 11, 2011

Drama, Drama, Drama...



Drama is this week's theme and boy, is it a great theme for me this week because believe me... a lot of drama has happened within this past week for me. As most of you know Tracey and I are friends and we have a lot in common. If you guys have read any of our posts on our personal blogs you would know that one of the things we share in common is an ex boyfriend. Now this ex boyfriend of ours (we'll call him K) is a complete and utter asshole. Tracey can back me up on this one. K had decided that me and him will not be friends anymore because I became friends with Tracey. What does it matter if we are friends? It has nothing to do with him because neither one of us is with him anymore. Then his past week he texted me trying to tie up loose ends and become friends again. So I found that out to be very strange. So I questioned it and I considered being friends with him again.



But thank God for my newfound friend, Tracey. Who can snap me back into reality and realize how much drama K really causes. For one thing, when K and I broke up I received quite a few anonymous tips letting me know that he had cheated on me at least once. Tracey gave me a call last night and was so upset because she felt like she was hiding something from me and she didn't want to ruin the friendship that we have made and continue to grow. So I told her to just tell me, don't hold anything back. She told me some unsettling news that I already knew. She met K before him and I broke up and without her knowing that he had a girlfriend they had made out. In my heart, I knew that K had cheated on me. And it has been well over a year and I have been with my current boyfriend for a little over a year (yes, I rebounded but found true love.. very rare to do) and it didn't phase me. I told her not to worry about it and that she probably wasn't the first girl he cheated on me with and I didn't want it to affect our friendship either. It doesn't bother me that that had happened. I'm over it. Tracey and I are probably even better friends than before because I appreciated her honesty.



However, with K... not too sure the friendship is going to happen. I don't like a lot of drama in my life because it gives me a headache. However... I do cause a bit of it.. and I definitely caused some with K. I decided to start a war with him. All I wanted was for him to admit that he cheated on me. So I have been arguing with him and he has been denying all damn day long. It makes no sense to me that he can't just be a decent person and admit that what he did was wrong but instead make everyone else the bad guy. He is an idiot. And then I find out that he wanted to make up and be friends again so that he can have a pen pal for when he goes overseas for while he's in the army. So, I asked him, "What about Tracey, she likes to write." He responded with "Me and her aren't on talking terms." Yea, you know why, K... because you are a douchebag who only brings drama (talk about a damn drama queen...) and pain to everyone's lives. Gosh!



Anyways, it is no secret that I love my fair share of TV and movies. Every summer I watch Big Brother. It has got to be the most stressful and drama-filled show I have ever seen. And this summer has been phenomenal! My favorite 4 players are still in it. (Barely, but they are!) I just got done watching tonight's episode and I am so happy!

Anyways, This is starting to be a whole bunch of ramble about what kind of drama has been in my life and it's cutting close to the deadline of not being Thursday so I should click off. =]

I hope you all have a great rest of the week. And... while you're at it... keep voting for next week's theme and submit a guest blog post!!

xoxo
Stephanie

D.R.A.M.A., Dangerously Ridiculous & Automatically Moronic Action

First off, SO SORRY GUYS for being M.I.A., things have been really weird lately, making the days kind of blur together into one big sucky blob. A dear beloved high school teacher of mine died really recently from lung cancer so my life turned a bit on its head, but I'm getting back on track. Talk about DRAMA, right???

Is DRAMA ever really good? Even sometimes when you watch it happen, you don't want to be a part of it, right? As for me, I try to keep drama out of my life. When I was younger, it seemed to follow me everywhere....I guess that's what you get with volatile emotions and puberty and the whole sucky shebang.



What I'm going to write about is how
drama doesn't have to be all bad. That's something I've come to terms with recently. I suppose in a way, the awfulness of crap is measured by how you deal with it, and this measurement is in units of "drama." How mathematic of me. And in order to wade through the clusterf-ck of suck, we as people need to develop our own ways of handling a lot of drama without getting hurt or permanently emotionally scarred.

A few days later...
Argh, so this post has spanned a few days and I'm getting nowhere. TOO MUCH DRAMA. I had to drop out of my retreat that I had been planning for for WEEKS, and now I didn't even have to go because my partner for the retreat ditched me to go to Hong Kong with his girlfriend....So now I'm dealing with all this stress and drama the best way I know how...holing myself up in my apartment with Velveeta Mac n Cheez, poached egg salad, a Cactus Cooler, dark chocolate truffles, and Merlin. This is soul soothing at its finest.

Don't let drama dictate the quality of your life...grab drama by the throat and show it who's boss (you are...you're the boss...in case that wasn't clear). Hopefully by next Wednesday all of this bull-bananas will be all blown over and I'll be able to deliver a
real post.

In the meantime,
Cheers! xo
É

Monday, August 8, 2011

Pointless Violence Arises from Pointless Drama: London 2011

Metropolitan police officer in riot gear
If you haven't been keeping abreast of the news for the last couple days, there have been a number of riots in London, England. And when I say riots, I mean full blown riots -- looting, crime, angry mobs, etc.; the whole nine yards and then some. I'm not going to get into my personal emotions regarding the subject, as I'm pretty much a wreck right now with worry (I have several close friends in various parts of England, including London). They've begun spreading across the country, north to Birmingham, Liverpool, Manchester, and Leeds.

From an outsider's perspective, this is possibly one of the most primitive things I've seen in a first class country. A BBC correspondent just said via the live feed that: "...the situation has gone from rowdy [...] to life threatening." I've spoken to about three of my good English friends and they're all okay, they're safe for now, but furious about these riots. They don't see any reason to them.

Why did it start? Because an armed drug dealer was shot last Thursday by a police officer in Tottenham. If you don't know why that's a big deal, then I shall tell you: it's illegal to own and carry a firearm in the United Kingdom. British citizens do not have guns in their private possession, nor do most police officers. Most police officers are typically equipped with mace, a nightstick, and handcuffs; with special training, they are given tasers and certain special forces are allowed to carry firearms. Otherwise, they've got to rely on what they're given in standard issue.

Firemen put out the last of a fire in London
Mere hours after a "peaceful protest" for this drug dealer's death (still trying to wrap my head around why there was one needed for such a scum bag), Tottenham was in flames. Protesters threw stones at police and smashed windows throughout the borough. This is where the riots erupted from. Tottenham has a long history of tension with police, you can look up the 1985 riots if you don't believe me. Looters then spread through London, lighting buildings (including a shopping mall) on fire, forcing families out of their homes, and endangering the lives of countless others. Now there are robberies taking place in London and Birmingham, the City Centre in Leeds is in a full blown riot, while Liverpool, Bristol, and Manchester are beginning to experience riots as well, and police are advising people to stay indoors.

In defence of the public, police in riot gear have taken to the London streets, police dogs have been dispatched and water cannons are being used against protesters. I've also read some remarks about tear gas and rubber bullets being used and share in sentiments that nerve gas wouldn't be too terrible a thing to punish them with at this point. The problem here is that in light of the nation's economy, David Cameron cut the police force's numbers in the UK earlier this year, as a result, police are now stretched too thinly and cannot possibly handle or even end these riots quickly enough. If things continue as they are going, the army will need to be dispatched, similar to how the Coast Guard and Army were called in during Hurricane Katrina in 2005.

All of this is pointless. All of this is unnecessary. And I can't even tell you how scared and angry this makes me. The man shot was black, so what? The man shot was a drug dealer, so what? I don't care. Yes, it's sad that someone was killed, don't think I don't care about that, but people get shot all the time here, perhaps that's the difference between us and Britain. This simply infuriates me: nothing about this man is enough of a justification to destroy a city, homes, and the livelihoods of dozens of people. People have barely escaped burning buildings with their lives -- is that really so JUST? Do these people not realise that in doing this they're only creating more problems for themselves? Ultimately, this isn't going to hurt the police force (though they're just lit a station on fire in Birmingham), it's going to hurt the common everyday man or woman in the UK: the taxpayers.

All the looting, destruction, and crimes that are taking place will result in (1) Increased taxes, (2) An increase of prison inmates, and (3) Injury and possible death. It's not hard to see where this is going when you sit there and think about it. You're setting buildings on fire in urban locations, possibly risking the injury of innocent civilians and for what? Because a cop did his job? Because a cop shot a drug dealer who was only corrupting society? It's ridiculous. This is ridiculous. Not even Mark Dugan's (the victim of the police shooting) friends think that violence is the answer.

David Cameron, British PM (Con),
will be leaving Italy at 3AM Tuesday
cutting short his family holiday to return
to London in light of the worsening riots.
Locals blame it on 'hardships' and the politics of Britain. I'm sorry but that's a load of shit if you ask me. A London police chief has gone on record with BBC saying "...All I have seen in these riots is violence. Pure, gratuitous violence..." while a looter has been quoted as saying, "...we heard other people were getting free stuff, so we though, why not us?" So frankly, it's a really poor excuse as far as I'm concerned, especially when I can guarantee that most of those who began the riots are taking government pay outs like our welfare hounds here in the States, who do nothing but work the average American dry. If you really can't stand how you're living, if you're living in such deplorable squalor, then get out and make a change. Appeal to the politicians, get active in your community, get your community together and work at it. But don't start riots and cry over it being because of hard times economically. If you have a roof over your head, clothes on your back, and food in your stomach, you aren't in that terrible a position.

All this violence is going to do is create more problems. Clearly the people starting the riots are illogical, uneducated fools who can't see this. This is all pointless drama when it comes down to it. I'm not trying to justify the death of this man, but for Christ's sake, don't start violent protests and kill more because of him. He was armed, he took aim at a police officer in the city of London who was equipped with a firearm of his own. That officer made a snap decision and chose to fire his own weapon as the situation demanded that sort of decision. Do you think that officer simply wanted to murder that man? Of course not -- no one in their right mind wants that. You can't defend some thug when he brought this fate upon himself. And you can't justify displacing and harming hundreds of other people either all on one single police shooting gone bad.

Fireman walks past a burning building in
Tottenham following this weekend's riots.

Keep London, Birmingham, Leeds, Liverpool, Bristol, Manchester, and the rest of the UK in your thoughts tonight and for the rest of the week, until this is over. The people who began these riots are fools and deserve to be arrested and charged for the maximum penalty of their crimes. They don't deserve to be free to roam the streets if they believe endangering others is a just cause. There is no just cause in this because a just cause would be one of the rational alternatives I listed above. Violence is never the answer.

Have a nice week everyone,
Vicki

PS: You can find a live feed with streaming video on BBC's site, here.